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Situational Awareness in Leadership: Why It Matters — and What Most Leaders Are Missing

The Leader’s Compass: Situational Awareness from Ancient Wisdom to Modern Practice

Situational awareness — the ability to perceive, comprehend, and anticipate changes in your environment — forms the bedrock of effective leadership. Whether guiding a family, managing a team, or leading an organization, leaders often falter not from lack of intelligence or vision, but from being disconnected from the realities around them.

This disconnect manifests in leaders who miss crucial social cues, fail to adapt to changing circumstances, or remain blind to emerging threats and opportunities. Across centuries, from ancient battlefields to modern boardrooms, the wisdom remains consistent: a leader must be acutely aware of their situation to navigate successfully.

Ancient Wisdom on Awareness

Sun Tzu: Know Yourself and Your Environment

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.”

Over 2,000 years ago, the Chinese general Sun Tzu identified comprehensive awareness as the foundation of victory. His teaching emphasizes that leaders who understand both their own capabilities and the challenges before them will consistently succeed.

Sun Tzu also introduced the concept of “zhao shi” (situation-making) — the ability to create and leverage favorable circumstances rather than merely responding to them. This dimension of situational awareness involves actively shaping conditions to your advantage.

For today’s leader, this translates to thoroughly understanding your team’s strengths and limitations while accurately assessing the challenges you face. When you possess this dual awareness, you can anticipate moves and consequences rather than reacting blindly. Leaders who lack this perspective may occasionally succeed through luck but will inevitably face defeat when their incomplete understanding leads to poor decisions.

Marcus Aurelius: Adapt to Reality and Care for People

“Adapt yourself to the environment in which your lot has been cast, and show true love to the fellow-mortals with whom destiny has surrounded you.”

As Emperor of Rome, Marcus Aurelius advised himself to accept and adapt to circumstances while genuinely caring for those around him. This Stoic counsel addresses situational awareness at a personal level: effective leaders must not deny reality but instead understand and adapt to their environment while maintaining authentic connections with others.

Marcus Aurelius demonstrated this philosophy during significant crises, such as the Avidius Cassius rebellion. When faced with this attempted usurpation, he remained calm and rational, responding with measured action rather than reactive emotion — a perfect example of situational awareness in practice.

Leaders often lack awareness because they resist uncomfortable truths about their situation — whether market shifts or team tensions. By embracing reality with humility and extending compassion to others, leaders can respond appropriately to changing dynamics. In practice, this means noticing a team member’s distress and adjusting expectations, or recognizing industry changes and pivoting strategy accordingly.

Machiavelli: Change Your Approach as Times Change

“Whosoever desires constant success must change his conduct with the times.”

Renaissance political philosopher Machiavelli observed that rigid leadership fails when times change. His insight highlights situational awareness as the ability to sense and respond to shifting conditions. The message is clear: fortune and circumstances constantly evolve, and only leaders alert to these changes can maintain success.

In “The Prince,” Machiavelli elaborates on this concept, explaining that flexibility in leadership strategies isn’t merely beneficial — it’s essential for maintaining power and influence in an ever-changing environment. He provides historical examples of leaders who succeeded or failed based on their ability to adapt their approaches to new circumstances.

For contemporary leaders, this might mean adjusting management styles as teams evolve or embracing new technologies rather than clinging to familiar approaches. Leaders who lack situational awareness often persist with once-effective methods even as evidence mounts that the landscape has transformed. Machiavelli’s wisdom carries a stark warning: adapt or perish.

Modern Insights on Leadership Awareness

Jocko Willink: Control the Situation, Don’t Let It Control You

“Instead of letting the situation dictate our decisions, we must dictate the situation.”

Former Navy SEAL commander Jocko Willink emphasizes that situational awareness isn’t passive observation but the foundation for decisive action. Drawing from high-pressure combat experience, Willink urges leaders to maintain such keen awareness of their environment that they can shape outcomes rather than merely react.

In his book “Extreme Ownership,” Willink systematically explores how discipline and clarity enable leaders to take control of challenging circumstances. He provides detailed examples from both battlefield scenarios and business environments where leaders who maintained comprehensive awareness could make pivotal decisions under pressure.

This approach involves staying calm amidst chaos, comprehensively assessing the environment, and then taking control. Many leaders lack this capability because stress and ego produce tunnel vision — they become consumed by immediate problems rather than seeing the complete picture. The solution, according to Willink, comes through discipline and clarity: by taking ownership of everything in your environment, you become aware of crucial details and can drive events instead of being driven by them.

Simon Sinek: Read the Room and Watch for Human Signals

“Roughhousing with your kids is fun, but a good parent knows when to stop, and when it’s going too far. Good leaders have to have constant situational awareness.”

In “Leaders Eat Last,” Simon Sinek draws a parallel between leadership and parenting to illustrate social awareness. Just as attentive parents sense when playfulness crosses into potential harm, effective leaders continuously read the mood and dynamics of their team. Sinek emphasizes the importance of “watching the room constantly” — noticing who struggles to speak, who dominates conversations, and when tension rises.

Throughout his work, Sinek explores how this emotional intelligence creates environments where people feel valued and protected. He demonstrates how leaders who prioritize their teams’ psychological safety generate stronger loyalty, creativity, and resilience during challenging times. This focus on building trust through empathetic awareness forms a cornerstone of his leadership philosophy.

This interpersonal dimension of situational awareness is often overlooked by leaders who focus excessively on tasks or metrics while missing human signals. Sinek suggests that genuine leadership presence emerges from attentive empathy. By remaining attuned to others — noticing unspoken frustrations or disengagement — leaders build trust and psychological safety. Developing this awareness requires practicing active listening, observing nonverbal cues, and soliciting input from quieter team members.

Daniel Kahneman: We Miss More Than We Realize

“The gorilla study illustrates two important facts about our minds: we can be blind to the obvious, and we are also blind to our blindness.”

Psychologist Daniel Kahneman offers profound insight into why leaders often lack situational awareness. Referencing the famous selective attention experiment where observers counting basketball passes fail to notice a person in a gorilla suit walking through the scene, Kahneman highlights our cognitive limitations and biases.

In his groundbreaking work “Thinking, Fast and Slow,” Kahneman systematically explores how these cognitive biases impact decision-making. He explains how our minds operate in two systems — one fast and intuitive, the other slow and deliberate — and how overreliance on the fast system can lead to critical oversights. Kahneman suggests that seeking diverse perspectives helps mitigate these biases, a practice essential for comprehensive situational awareness.

His observation reveals a dangerous double-blind for leaders: not only do we miss significant facts in our environment, but we remain unaware of these blind spots. An executive focused on quarterly results might completely overlook a deteriorating team culture. Because everything seems fine from their limited perspective, they remain blind to their own blindness.

Kahneman’s research encourages leaders to question their perceptions. Developing genuine situational awareness begins with acknowledging that you don’t see everything. This requires actively seeking feedback, embracing dissenting viewpoints, and deliberately slowing down thinking in critical moments to scan for overlooked factors. Leaders who adopt this mindset of curiosity and humility will better anticipate consequences and avoid being blindsided by developments that others saw coming.

Cultivating Comprehensive Situational Awareness

These ancient and modern insights collectively reveal what genuine situational awareness in leadership entails. It is simultaneously:

  • Strategic: Understanding all forces at play (Sun Tzu)
  • Adaptive: Remaining flexible as times change (Machiavelli)
  • Grounded: Accepting reality and people as they are (Aurelius)
  • Proactive: Taking control rather than reacting (Willink)
  • Empathetic: Constantly reading people and relationships (Sinek)
  • Self-aware: Recognizing our cognitive limitations (Kahneman)

Leaders often lack situational awareness not from incompetence but because it requires balancing multiple human faculties: humility, observation, open-mindedness, and agility. Fortunately, these qualities can be developed through intentional practice.

Practical Steps for Development

  1. Build habits of observation and reflection. Regularly step back from immediate concerns to survey your environment from a broader perspective.
  2. Create thinking space. Before major decisions, take time to consider contexts and potential consequences rather than rushing to action.
  3. Cultivate diverse information sources. Invite perspectives from different organizational levels and backgrounds to overcome your blind spots.
  4. Embrace change as constant. Regularly ask, “What if things are different now?” when evaluating your approach.
  5. Develop empathetic attention. Practice noticing emotional and social currents around you, recognizing that leadership fundamentally involves human relationships.

Situational awareness serves as the antidote to tone-deaf leadership and the key to anticipating challenges before they escalate. By integrating the wisdom of warriors, philosophers, soldiers, business experts, and psychologists, any leader can deepen their environmental perception.

This expanded awareness not only helps avoid costly mistakes but empowers leaders to lead with wisdom and conviction, confident in their understanding of the context in which they and their people operate. In our rapidly changing world, this keen sense of the present moment — and one’s place within it — may be a leader’s greatest asset.


Sources: The Art of War; Meditations; The Prince; Extreme Ownership; Leaders Eat Last; Thinking, Fast and Slow.

Management is a Role, Not a Promotion!

Transitioning from an individual contributor to a managerial role is often seen as a promotion, but in reality, it’s much more — a complete shift in responsibilities and mindset. However, the journey doesn’t stop at management; the true evolution is transitioning from being a manager to becoming a leader.

Here are some key takeaways:

1. Management is a Role, Not a Promotion

Becoming a manager is not just about climbing the career ladder; it’s about taking on a new role with distinct responsibilities. Whether you’re an individual contributor or a manager, each role has its unique challenges and rewards. As Peter Drucker wisely put it, “Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.”

Reference: The Essential Drucker by Peter Drucker

2. Finding Your Niche

Understanding what drives you is essential to finding your niche in leadership. It’s crucial to introspect and determine whether you enjoy working with and developing people. If you naturally gravitate towards helping others succeed, leadership could be a fulfilling path for you. Steve Jobs once said, “The only way to do great work is to love what you do.” This applies equally to leadership.

3. Types of Managers

There are different types of managers, such as people managers and engineering managers. People managers focus on personal development, conducting one-on-ones, and supporting their team members’ growth. Engineering managers, on the other hand, combine technical responsibilities with people management, such as conducting code reviews and unblocking team members.

Question: How does understanding the type of manager you are help in your role?
Answer: Knowing your management style allows you to tailor your approach to your team’s needs, whether it’s focusing on technical guidance or personal development. This alignment is crucial for your team’s success and your effectiveness as a leader.

4. Delegation and Decision-Making

Effective leaders excel in delegation and make decisions based on data, not just gut feelings. Delegation involves more than just handing off tasks; it requires clear communication, guidance, and understanding each team member’s strengths.

Example: If you’re faced with a decision about which feature to prioritize, data-driven insights can guide you. For instance, choosing a feature that provides 80% of the impact with 20% of the effort is a strategic move, ensuring maximum value for the time invested.

Question: How does a leader excel in delegation and decision-making?
Answer: To excel, a leader must set clear expectations and provide guidance while empowering their team to take ownership of their work. As John Maxwell famously stated, “A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.”

Reference: The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by John C. Maxwell

5. Facing Failures

Failures are inevitable, but how you handle them defines your growth as a leader. Recognizing issues early, communicating with stakeholders, and creating a plan to address and learn from failures are essential steps. Winston Churchill’s words resonate here: “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”

Question: How does a leader face failures?
Answer: Leaders must own their failures, communicate openly with their teams, and focus on recovery and future prevention. For example, when a project is going off-track, a leader should proactively inform stakeholders, adjust the scope if necessary, and set up guardrails to avoid future issues.

6. Experience Matters

There’s no substitute for experience in leadership. The breadth of your experiences will guide your decisions and shape your leadership style. Julius Caesar aptly noted, “Experience is the teacher of all things.” Leadership is enriched by diverse experiences, which prepare you for the complexities of guiding others.

Example: If you’ve been put in charge of a project that’s going south, the stress and difficulty of salvaging it will teach you invaluable lessons that contribute to your growth as a leader.

Reference: Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell

7. Leadership as a Coach

Leadership goes beyond managing tasks; it’s about coaching and developing your team. As a coach, the focus is on nurturing and supporting each team member, leading to more meaningful and impactful leadership. Phil Jackson, a legendary coach, once said, “The strength of the team is each individual member. The strength of each member is the team.”

Question: How does a leader transition from managing to coaching?
Answer: Transitioning to a coaching mindset involves shifting from task management to personal development. Leaders should focus on helping team members grow, providing guidance and support tailored to individual needs.

Reference: Eleven Rings: The Soul of Success by Phil Jackson


For those aspiring to move from management to true leadership, the advice is clear: understand the broader role of a leader, seek opportunities to develop your team, and always be open to learning from experiences — both yours and others.

Leadership isn’t just about overseeing a team; it’s about continuous self-reflection, growth, and elevating those around you. As I often reflect, “Being a leader helps you deliver 10x, 100x more than what you do as an individual.”

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My Leadership Journey: An Open Letter to My Team

Dear Team,

This letter is for all of you who have walked this leadership journey with me — through the highs and lows, the challenges and triumphs, the late nights and the early mornings. Many of the details I’ll mention here will be experiences you’ve had while working with me on various engagements. As we continue to grow and evolve together, I believe it’s important to take a moment to reflect on the leadership styles that guide our day-to-day interactions and the success of our projects.

The Core of Flexible Leadership

Leadership isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach. In my experience, a successful leader needs to be flexible, adapting their style based on the situation, the needs of the team, and the objectives of the organization. This flexibility isn’t just a theoretical concept; it’s something I practice daily. You’ve likely seen it in action during our one-on-ones, project kick-offs, and those challenging moments when we’re navigating through complex problems.

“Sometimes it is better to lose and do the right thing than to win and do the wrong thing.” — Tony Blair

Tony Blair’s words remind us that leadership involves making tough decisions and sometimes steering the ship through stormy waters. My approach to leadership is much like navigating a ship through diverse and sometimes unpredictable seas. Depending on the waves — whether they’re calm or tumultuous — I adjust the sails, not just for myself, but for all of you aboard.

Visionary Leadership

One of the foundational pillars of my leadership style is being visionary. When we kick off a project, I make it a point to set a clear vision (end to end) that aligns with our company goals. This isn’t just about outlining what needs to be done; it’s about communicating why we’re doing it, the impact it will have, and how it aligns with the bigger picture. You might recall our discussions where I’ve shared how customers appreciate our work, how leadership is eager to see the project go live, or how our efforts will make a significant difference. This is all part of the visionary approach.

I’ve always believed that a motivated team is a productive team. By continuously reinforcing the vision, I aim to keep the team focused and driven, even when we hit inevitable roadblocks. Visionary leadership is crucial, especially during challenging times like organizational changes or market shifts. It’s during these times that we need to look forward, not backward, and concentrate on the opportunities ahead.

“Leadership is the capacity to translate vision into reality.” — Warren Bennis

Warren Bennis’s quote perfectly encapsulates what I strive for in my leadership. Translating vision into reality is what we do every day, and it’s a journey I’m proud to take with all of you.

Coaching

Another key aspect of my leadership style is coaching. I see my role as not just a leader, but as a mentor — a GPS that helps you navigate your career paths. During our one-on-ones or when delegating tasks, I focus on understanding where you are now, where you want to go, and how we can get you there together. This isn’t about dictating your path but rather guiding you to find your way.

For instance, when I delegate tasks, I don’t just consider your skills and timelines; I also factor in your interests and career goals. It’s about finding the sweet spot where what you’re passionate about intersects with what needs to be done. I often use frameworks like WWW (What Went Well) and EBI (Even Better If) during feedback sessions to ensure that the coaching process is constructive and growth-oriented.

“A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.” — John C. Maxwell

John C. Maxwell’s perspective on leadership aligns with my own. It’s about more than just knowing the way; it’s about walking the path alongside you and showing you how to navigate it successfully.

Democratic Leadership

When it comes to decision-making, particularly on matters like architecture decisions, prioritizing tech debt, or reviewing sprint retrospectives, I lean towards a democratic leadership style. You’ve seen this in our sprint planning meetings and retrospectives, where I encourage each of you to voice your opinions and share your insights. This isn’t just about reaching a consensus; it’s about fostering a collaborative environment where everyone feels they have a stake in the outcome.

I believe that when you’re involved in the decision-making process, it not only leads to better decisions but also empowers you to take ownership of the project’s success. This collective approach promotes team effort and collaboration, which are critical to our success.

“The strength of the team is each individual member. The strength of each member is the team.” — Phil Jackson

Phil Jackson’s quote highlights the essence of democratic leadership. It’s about recognizing that our collective strength comes from each of you contributing your unique perspectives and skills to the team.

Affiliative Leadership

Leadership isn’t just about pushing towards goals; it’s also about creating an environment where everyone feels supported and valued. That’s where affiliative leadership comes in. Whether it’s organizing team lunches, celebrating wins, or simply being there during tough times, I prioritize building a positive and harmonious work environment. You’ve likely experienced this during our team-building activities or in moments where we’ve had to support each other through challenges.

During stressful times, whether due to external pressures or internal changes, I focus on compassion and empathy. It’s about putting goals and standards aside temporarily to ensure that your immediate needs are met, creating a safe space where you feel valued and understood.

“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” — Maya Angelou

Maya Angelou’s words serve as a reminder that leadership is deeply personal. It’s about how we make each other feel as we work towards our goals.

Pacesetting Leadership

There are moments when urgency and high standards are necessary, and this is where pacesetting leadership comes into play. You’ve seen this when we’ve faced critical production issues or tight deadlines. In such situations, I step in to lead by example, guiding the team through the process and setting a high standard for performance. This isn’t about micromanaging but rather about showing you what excellence looks like in action and helping you rise to the occasion.

“The best way to lead people into the future is to connect with them deeply in the present.” — James M. Kouzes

Kouzes’s quote reflects my approach during these critical moments. It’s about being present, hands-on, and ensuring that we move forward together.

Avoiding Coercive Leadership

One leadership style I consciously avoid is coercive leadership — giving direct orders without seeking input or considering the team’s perspectives. This style can create an environment of fear and insecurity, which is the opposite of what I strive for. In high-performing, motivated teams like ours, coercive leadership stifles creativity and reduces job satisfaction. It’s a last resort, used only when no other options remain.

“Leadership is not about being in charge. It is about taking care of those in your charge.” — Simon Sinek

Simon Sinek’s philosophy resonates with me deeply. Leadership is about care, respect, and fostering an environment where everyone can thrive.

A Journey of Continuous Learning

My leadership style is not static; it evolves with each interaction, project, and challenge we face together. Over the years, I’ve learned from experience, as well as from formal education, books and training programs, but the real learning comes from working with all of you.

I hope this deep dive into my leadership style resonates with your experiences and offers insights into how and why I lead the way I do. Together, we’ve achieved great things, and I’m excited about what we will accomplish in the future.

“The only way to do great work is to love what you do.” — Steve Jobs

Let’s continue to love what we do, support each other, and strive for excellence in everything we undertake.

With gratitude and respect,

Shanoj Kumar V